WELCOME Single/Solo Gentlemen – Guidelines & Expectations

Club Sapphire is a large, social community centered around consensual, non-monogamous adult couples. To maintain a balanced and comfortable environment, a limited number of approved single gentlemen may attend events only when single female attendance allows.

We are not a dating service and do not facilitate or arrange any form of sexual activity. Club Sapphire is not a sex club—we are a social club first and foremost.

Orientation & Membership Requirements

• All new single gentlemen are required to attend our New Single Male Orientation held Wednesdays at 6:15 PM.
• Membership will not be activated or approved until orientation is completed and the event that evening is attended.
• If you have not attended the club in over one year, you are considered a new applicant.
• A completed member profile is required before being considered for orientation.
• Tickets must be requested in advance via email: information@clubsapphire.com
• Tickets are limited, non-refundable, and required for entry.
• No walk-ins. No exceptions.

Event Entry

• A confirmed ticket is required prior to arrival for all events.
• No admittance without confirmation.

Club Culture & Expectations

Club Sapphire is a private lifestyle club built on community, respect, and connection. Many members enjoy the company of respectful single gentlemen—but that privilege comes with responsibility.

The best way to meet others is in social and dance spaces. Attempting to connect in play areas is not appropriate.

Never attend with the expectation of sex.
We are a social environment first—everything else is secondary and always based on mutual consent.

Core Principles

CONSENT • RESPECT • ACCEPTANCE

• “No” means NO.
  It should never need to be repeated. Consent can be withdrawn at any time—even mid-encounter.
• No touching without verbal permission.
  Always ask first. Never assume.
• Approach with respect.
  Engage both partners when appropriate. It is considered courteous to speak with couples together.
  Be patient—interest is shown, not forced.
• Let women lead.
  If a woman or couple is interested, they will make it known.

Behavior Standards

• Intoxication is not tolerated.
  Entry will be denied if you appear impaired. Consent cannot be given under the influence.
• You are expected to conduct yourself as a gentleman at all times.
• No harassment or inappropriate behavior, including:
  • Staring or gawking
  • Repeated advances after being declined
  • Asking for personal contact information unsolicited
  • Any form of explicit or public self-gratification

If someone declines, accept it gracefully. Do not ask why. Do not ask again.

Play Areas

• Single gentlemen are never permitted in play areas alone.
• No wandering or “cruising” hallways or rooms.
• You must be accompanied by a partner at all times in these spaces.

Violations will result in immediate removal and possible suspension or permanent termination of membership.

Safety

• Protection is expected unless all parties have clearly and verbally agreed otherwise.
• Ongoing communication and check-ins are strongly encouraged.

Zero Tolerance Policy

Failure to follow any rule may result in:

• Immediate removal from the premises
• Membership suspension or termination
• Permanent ban with no refunds and no second chances

Being invited as a single gentleman is a privilege—please respect it.

For more details on what to expect at Club Sapphire or if you have questions, please contact us anytime.